Barberism

Prior to February 9, 1964, every American male got his haircut once a week. That was the day the Beatles made their American debut on the Ed Sullivan Show. The lads from Liverpool with their long locks and lurid lyrics, plowed furrows through popular culture to the extent that, within a couple of years, even Richard Nixon had John Lennon sideburns. The era of the local barber shop had come to a close.

Until that day, there was at least one barber shop on every Main Street in every town. On the main street of my town I recall three barber shops with a minimum of three chairs and three barbers. There was always a wait for a chair and always a pile of ratty old magazines to read while waiting.

The barber called you over and, using only a pair of scissors and a comb, removed all superfluous hair from your collar line up. When he was done, he’d wet down what was left with a bottle of smelly green liquid, comb it into submission and in an hour or so your hair would have hardened up enough to skate upon. The young folks would be offered a lollipop from a big glass jar. Two weeks later: back in the chair.

I grew my hair long as soon as I was big enough to face down my father who, in spite of his own sideburns and mustache, was unbending when it came to how his sons appeared on the street . When I hit age 43, I decided it wasn’t worth fighting conformity, and I began getting regular haircuts again.

This is not as easy as it sounds because I am a purist. I am dead set against paying for frills like mousse, expander and tea tree fire-proofing or any of the other options offered at the modern “salon.” One by one, over the years, I have frequented the rapidly vanishing shops with striped poles by the door; places where the barber’s license is taped to the mirror and the long, tapered combs are kept in a jar of blue disinfectant.

Eventually, I started going to the local beauty school. There, for a really good price, they’d throw you at the mercy of student, who would very slowly, painfully and methodically cut each of your individual hairs, sometimes several times. Now and then, when a student seemed to get stuck, an instructor was called in. Soon, the two of them would be staring at the back of my head, the frustrated student being chided by the scissor-wielding instructor.

“How many times have I told you NOT to do it that way?” The instructor might ask, or worse, “how do you plan to fix that?”

Whatever happened while I was in the chair, eventually they peeled off the drop cloth, my pate lathered in fragrant, waxy goo, and with any luck there would be no major divots reflected back in my rearview mirror.

One of the benefits of risking my carefully-crafted public image to the sharp blades of an untrained and often pregnant beauty college student, is that a trainee might eventually become your permanent hair care coordinator. Such is the case with Helena.

Helena is an artist and has the gift of gab and a natural gift for hair styling. In her chair, I was regaled with tales and adventures of the local grim youth. She would unravel wonderful travelogues of vacations at Disneyworld with her husband, and occasionally whispering the latest beauty school gossip into my newly protruding ears.

After graduation, Helena brought her scissors over to “Salon Niçoise,” a well-established salon in a nearby town. I faithfully followed her. Every couple of months, I would call the reception desk and get my name on the schedule.

When I got my nursing license and began working, I quickly realized that, in spite of the rigorous training, a job, once obtained, is still a job. And once in the work place, one soon finds themselves ensconced in a situation that is full of co-workers. Us new kids, freshly scrubbed and altruistic, learn – day one – that for every skilled and competent professional at the workplace, there is the equivalent number of disgruntled, incompetent, lazy do-nothings that complain all day and find new ways to avoid working.

Such was the atmosphere in Helena’s new salon. From where I sat, it appeared that the other salon workers did not have nearly the dedicated work ethic and skill set that verily gleamed off the tips of Helena’s scissors as she toiled over my shoulder.
When I called last week she wasn’t there. “We haven’t seen her in a month,” the woman on the phone told me. Was she OK, I wondered? How am I going to find her? I didn’t know her last name or anything about her other than where she worked and that she liked the Monkees.

And now she was gone.

I considered sitting in the parking lot of the salon and waiting for a familiar face to emerge and then attempting to pry information out of her former co-workers. That seemed not bloody likely.

Hallelujah! A google search of the salon led me to their web site and soon I was directed to Facebook where I quickly located and “friended” her. Lo and behold, a couple of days later I was hearing a blow-by-blow description of the straw that broke the camel’s back at her former employer, and the story of why I was sitting on an old stool in her grandmother’s kitchen.

Sometimes, thankfully, a mullet is a fish.